Now that we're on the downside of the pregnancy mountain, we're starting to get the question we've been dreading....have we picked out a name? This is something Dave and I talk about almost daily. And, we're really getting nowhere with it.
A couple of years ago I had picked out some names and I had come up with one I really liked. I assumed that Dave liked it too and so recently I've begun to call the baby by it's name. Then one day Dave said he wasn't so sure about it. I was devastated. I really had my heart set on this name. To be fair, he felt like he wasn't part of the decision process and I totally get that. Yet, he has come up with ZERO suggestions and has said, he doesn't like any names. Awesome.
There's so much pressure riding on this name. I think names can create the type of person that you'll become. It's important to pick the name that's right for the child that will someday be an adult. Personally, I have narrowed the names down to two and they couldn't be more different.
One is 100% Greek, which is hilarious because neither of us is Greek and if you've seen pictures of us or know us personally, you would know that Dave and I are mostly likely producing a blonde-haired, blue-eyed baby. A Greek name might seem a little weird. This name, I think, is free spirited. I can see the kiddo liking art and music, be a wild child in sports, but maybe not care so much about the future and the important things. The name might create a fiery personality, which would almost guarantee the child to be a lot like me. This could be bad to have another one of me in the household.
The other name, my first love for names, is the complete opposite of the other. It's a very formal name, where I could see the child being a bookworm, loving school, and eventually becoming a CEO. I absolutely love this name for it's formality. There's the rub, though. I have a very formal name and have always gone by my formal name. Because I grew up with this formal name, I have formed my own opinion that children who are given formal names should be called by their formal names. If you want a child to go by Billy, name the child Billy! Dave, of course, thinks I'm being silly because, well, his name is actually David and he goes by Dave. His parents are the ONLY people who still call him David. To me, Dave is the grown up version of David. And he CHOSE to go by Dave when he was in high school. So if I named my child a formal name, I would want that child to go by a formal name until he/she can decide for him/herself if he/she wants to go by another name. Where am I going with this? The formal name I really like can easily be turned into an informal name. This is where, I believe, Dave is stuck and is dragging his feet.
I personally want to pick a name quickly so we can begin calling the baby by its name and get not only the baby but our dog adapted to hearing it. Dave, on the other hand, wants to wait until he sees the baby. I guess I get that, but I don't want to be those people who wait until a whole week to name the baby and for a week just call it baby. What's that about? We still have five months to go. And I'm sure, hundreds more names to talk about.